Women mature when they become mothers, they don't just grow into better people as a natural side effect of aging.
Age gap discourse always pretends that women mature in identical fashion to men, but they do not. Life is not as callous to them. A woman's life is not so familiar with struggle and suffering as a man's. This is good and natural.
Women's staggering mountains are molehills to us, it's part of why they are cute and silly. Women's world should be small, it's what makes for good mothers. It makes them more patient and understanding of children's small worlds.
Parenthood is the biggest maturity builder in both sexes, it makes us look outside ourselves, to truly care about someone more than our own life.
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