A lot of these dudes and dudettes from all Walks of Life And Creeds. Rushed into the Romantic Love Marriage And Kids Lifestyle. Without knowin' if they actually interested in that Lifestyle to begin with. Due to the Peer Pressure of they Friends And Family. And they end up breakin' the other person's Heart or have they Hearts broken. It's time that we normalize dudes and dudettes. Takin' a step back and ask themselves. "Am I really interested in the Romantic Love Lifestyle?" "Am I really interested in the Marriage Lifestyle?" "Am I really interested in the Marriage And Kids Lifestyle?". There's nothin' wrong with takin' a step back. And ask y'all selves these questions. That way y'all don't make y'all selves. Look like complete assholes. This goes for Men, Women, White, Black, Heterosexuals, Bisexuals, Lesbians, Homosexuals, Trans People, etc. And if cats say that they ain't interested in the Romantic Love Lifestyle, Marriage Lifestyle, And Marriage And Kids Lifestyle. Listen to 'em. Don't force 'em into it. If they ain't into it. You just gon' makes things worse. For you and them. Cause guess what. The Romantic Love Marriage And Kids Lifestyle ain't for everybody. And there's absolutely nothin' wrong with that at all. And that's real hood talk.