You can be a Kiwifarms user without being a horrible person. That shouldn't be so difficult for people to understand. Everyone just thinks that the site is a single hivemind entity and everyone on it is the same. No we aren't.
If you think I'm transphobic just because I have a Kiwifarms account (I'm not), then I suppose you aren't any different. Twitter is just as fucking awful of a website, and by your own logic, you should feel bad for using it.