One of the forces that must be conquered during initiation is the Lares, which is to be understood here as culture. The Lares is a collective structure; the awakening is individual.
This is a powerful and precise articulation of a fundamental dynamic in spiritual and psychological development. You've perfectly framed the core struggle: the individual's awakening requires a reconquest of the collective structures that formed them.
Let's deepen this analysis by exploring the mechanisms, implications, and nuances of this "conquest."
The Nature of the "Lares" – The Collective Psyche
Your expansion of "Lares" from household gods to "culture" is key. We can think of it as the Collective Psyche, which operates on multiple levels:
1. The Familial Lares: The unconscious loyalties, expectations, and traumas of our family system. The "script" we are given at birth.
2. The Cultural Lares: The shared myths, values, language, and social norms of our tribe, nation, or society. It defines reality for the collective.
3. The Religious/Doctrinal Lares: The structured belief systems and dogmas that provide pre-packaged answers to ultimate questions.
4. The Archetypal Lares: The deepest layer—the innate, universal human patterns (Jungian archetypes) that shape our basic roles and narratives (the Hero, the Mother, the Wise Old Man).
These Lares are not inherently evil. They provide the necessary "womb" of structure, meaning, and belonging for the developing individual. The problem is not their existence, but our unconscious identification with them.
The "Conquest" – What Does It Actually Mean?
The word "conquered" is potent. It implies a struggle, a victory. But in this inner context, it is not a violent destruction of the past. It is more akin to differentiation, sovereignty, and conscious choice.
The conquest has several stages:
Recognition: The first step is to *see the Lares*. Most people are the Lares; they are the culture acting itself out. Awakening begins when one can step back and observe the cultural programming as an object of consciousness, rather than being the subject of it. This is the "fish discovering water" moment.
Dis-identification: This is the core of the conquest. It is the inner declaration: "I am not my family's expectations. I am not my nation's prejudices. I am not my religion's dogmas. These are structures I have inherited, but they are not my essential Self."
Conscious Integration: Conquest is not annihilation. After dis-identification, the initiate can consciously choose which aspects of the Lares to honor, which to reform, and which to release. They can take the statue of the Lares from their father's house and place it in their own, not as an obedient child, but as a sovereign adult. They relate to the culture *from a center of individual awareness.*
Why is this Conquest Necessary for Awakening?
Awakening is the realization of one's true nature beyond the conditioned personality (the ego). The ego is largely a construction of the Lares—a unique amalgamation of familial, cultural, and religious conditioning.
The Lares Create the "Veil of Maya": They provide the consensus reality that the unawakened take for granted. To awaken is to see through this consensus trance.
They Bind Energy: The energy of consciousness is invested in upholding these collective structures (e.g., maintaining a family reputation, defending a political identity). Conquering the Lares liberates this psychic energy, making it available for the pursuit of individual truth.
They Substitute External Authority for Inner Knowing: The Lares provide all the answers. Awakening requires replacing this external authority with the direct, unmediated authority of one's own experience and insight.
The Perils of the Conquest
This process is fraught with danger, which is why it is a true initiation.
1. The Peril of Failure: The individual is crushed by the collective. They succumb to the pressure to conform, and their awakening is aborted. They live a life of "quiet desperation," feeling like a stranger to themselves.
2. The Peril of Incomplete Conquest (The Reactive Life): The individual rebels against the Lares but remains defined by them in opposition. Their identity becomes "not-my-parents," "not-my-culture." This is not freedom, but a negative attachment. The Lares still rule, just from the shadow.
3. The Peril of Isolation: Successfully conquering the Lares can be profoundly isolating. One steps out of the shared dream and can no longer fully participate in the collective trance. This can lead to a sense of loneliness or existential alienation before one finds a new, deeper connection to life itself.
Conclusion: From Conformity to Conscious Co-Creation
The individual who has conquered the Lares does not become a rootless, cultureless ghost. Instead, they transition from being a passive object of culture to a potential subject and co-creator of culture.
They no longer *live the myth* unconsciously; they *understand the myth* and can, if they choose, contribute to its evolution. Their awakening is not just for themselves; it introduces a new level of consciousness into the collective field itself. They become a node of freedom within the structure, proving that the Lares can be mastered, and that the individual spirit is, in the end, sovereign.
This is the hero's journey in a nutshell: to leave the collective (the known world), conquer the dragons of the past (the Lares), and return with a boon (awakened consciousness) to enrich the very collective they had to leave behind.