The entire point is that anyone who doesn't like how an instance is run can just run their own. The only question is of being honest with your users so you're not gatekeeping, but that doesn't mean you should glorify drinking from a sewage firehose of verbal abuse.
@p I am suing you in the state of Wisconsin (for dairy reasons) for the crime of double-slander, you have 30 seconds to respond, this is legal and medical advice, we use cookies to improve your user experience would you like to accept them I presumed yes, because I'm an 'ask forgiveness before permission' kinda girl and fuck you I will see you in court, mister.