@FallenFadedLostItAll@freak.university @Aldo2 @applejack >For children, the default authority to judge whether a relationship or activity is too risky falls to the parents to judge, whether thats sex or hrt or learning to cook. In all cases, that responsibility is ultimately passed over to the child, after theyve been educated enough to make those decisions for themselves.
I guess thats fair. Undoing legislation of morality is usually good and this still provides a reasonable bar against child rape, plus its an individualistic approach. IDK If I agree with this but I certainly respect a lot more than the other person, Miria, pedo coping and being like "All Sex is OK as long as people enjoy it, thus consent is useless"
>Sexual maturity is finalized by puberty; thus, all the requisite education to be able to make decisions of informed consent involving sex should also be finalized by the onset or during the height of puberty.
Very much disagree with this completely. Sexual maturity is an ongoing process. Its not "finalized" and it'll never be finalized. People casually spend their entire lifetime exploring themselves and whatnot, so i reject this idea
That said, by the end of puberty, you should know how informed consent works.
>It is also my opinion that gender choices and preferences are something they should explore during puberty, and if we tossed out sexism there wouldnt be an issue with choosing genders in the first place. The vast majority of gender confusion and stress is a result of the environment; we like and dislike certain things, yet society and fashion tell us "this is for boys, that is for girls, you have to conform to one or the other in everything you do", which us harmful. I believe a better, accepting culture would render most of the gender arguments moot, leaving only a few exceptional cases where someone genuinely takes issue with their biological organs.
Ehhhhh. I'd like to add that especially with people with dysphoria, gender confusion is something internal. It can and usually is worsened by the world around us but its def something internal. Some people, myself, are comfortable in their gender regardless of feminine or masculine traits, Some of the manliest men or femine women, however, will still struggle with things like "Am I manly/womanly" enough. Society does worsen this confusion though. Homie of mine is bi but thought he was trans when he was a teen because he liked dresses and instead of being told that even though thats feminine in the West, thats fine, he got told he was experiencing gender dysphoria. Anyways best way to avoid this is just think about which gender/sexuality you're fine with. You don't have to spend too much thought on it, just go with what feels right with you. From there, stick with a community that has people that respect your identity and along with that, people who respectfully question it. When I told my homie that I'm ace, he said that I may be having a bruh moment and might just be retarded. Ironically enough, instead of discouraging me from being ace, it just made me reaffirm my aceness more, to which he actually respected. Nowadays we causally talk about our shits with sexuality and whatnot like idk once every 3-4 months. You ofc don't want everyone in your group to question you constantly but imo having people that actually inquired me about my sexuality helped me figure it out more, kinda like trying jigsaw puzzle pieces and trying to find what goes where
>These cases should be dealt with carefully, and things like hrt and body modification surgeries should be postponed until post-puberty so they can be absolutely sure of the decision, the potential consequences, and avoid the risks associated with doing those things while the body is still changing during puberty. At least for now; we still dont fully have a grasp on how hormones and organs all work and what effects they have at each stage of human growth.
holy shit, based??!?!?!?!??!? especially considering all that talk about gender introspection, I was worried you're an SJW. Tbf you have an explicit pfp but still, cool to meet a queer person that actually thinks for themselves
