@holeinmyheart i'm talking about the appropriation of love as a virtue (indeed love is the greatest virtue, but not selfish or carnal "love") to defend libertine sexual attitudes. like the "free love movement" which was about sex. im not even talking just about such unconventional relationships, so many couples in traditional societies marry just to have lawful sex or in modern societies they cohabit to have easier access to sex and they still frame it in terms of love. love isn't sex, sex isn't love.