I need to find a girl/guy who is turned on by my possessiveness. I literally think of my partner as part of me and me as part of them, we are a unified entity. So their body is my body, and my body is their body. So of course she's not allowed to do jack shit without permission, and neither am I. If I say you're not going to the movies with your friends tonight, you're not. If you say I'm wearing a cock cage, I am. If at any point a demand is made that is unacceptable, the relationship is mutually dissolved. It's just that simple. Your cunt is my cunt, it is my property. If you don't like that you are free to go at any time. My dick is your property. If I don't like that I am free to go at any time. Sound good?