I would have no more angy if society was different. If society said "victims should of course get to punch, kick, or strick with sticks or clubs, their victimizer", and if society also said "just because you're king doesn't mean you're safe from the beatings, now take your beating eagerly, beg for it, or your teeth will be snapped out on top of the beating, which will be focused on your legs and back, but hey, if you're tired of having teeth please, by all means tell us how you don't really deserve this and you've already learned your lesson while trying to squirm away from the blows.