Break free from abuse, anons, my fellows, if your family is abusing you but you rely on them, use the grey rock technique. Don't feed in to their nonsense, ignore them, or give very curt honest responses. Do not go into the rabbit hole of sharing with an emotional abuser, don't do that to yourself! You are stronger than that and are better than that! Hope the abusers get healthy, and then at that point if you want to trust them it might be ok if they've truly changed and learned that what they did was deeply wrong or hurtful and they regret that.