I just learned that narcissists tend to be good with children (too young to speak or too young to be independent or disagree), never knew this before, but it makes perfect sense and I'm absolutely terrified these sort of people exist. I never understood why everyone "hates pedophiles" but this is what they're talking about, they're not talking about real child lovers they're talking about child users. I always understood there were bad people who hurt kids, but not this way, not by getting the child to love you purely as a set up to hurt them with the discard, that is absolutely fucking sick.