The urge to go on grooming reddits and tell "victims" who are victims of nothing more than love, attention, flirting, that they need to give their "groomer" what they're asking for, that they need to stop being stuck up and hurtful, that it is their job to help their "groomer" and it would break the groomers heart if they didn't treat them nicely and just give them what they want. UGH WHY AM I SO NASTY!!