That scene in He Got Game where denzel Washington makes love to the sad prostitute who hasn't had loving sex...maybe ever, and it helps both of them. She was even loving to him when he prematurely ejaculated before even getting it out. That's what's important in life, it's not the nut, it's the passion, the love. That's how I do it (though I've never prematurely ejaculated, not that there's anything wrong with that)./vent about passion and love in physical intimacy