@triodug
Suicide is about the suffering the person is going through. I don't care just how good do you think his future might be at one point, he is suffering so muchnow, that there is no happyness left. And the worst part is, that there is usually no reason to believe, that it will end soon... or ever to that matter.
Well, I know what it is to be suffering psychological abuse for 10 years, and I can tell you, that it just pisses me off, when someone keeps saying bs like 'it will get better' or 'other people will be sad'.
Because all I hear from these limes is 'I don't care how much do you suffer, I will not even consider it. Your mom's 10 minutes of big sad are much more important to me, then anythimg she did or will do to you yet.'
Of corse things did eventually get better, but that does not change anything. I still did go through it all. So if someone I know does consider suicide, I will be the first person to hand them a knife.
I'm sorry you feel that way, but as someone who went through hard times myself (still am) I genuinely believe that things do get better, that live is still worth living, if only for the consumption of media.
>Your mom's 10 minutes of big sad are much more important to me, then anything she did or will do to you yet.
I don't think people think of it like that when they say that others will be sad.