@PennyLope
I am sorry the entire debate got off topic.
Either way, my point was, that throughout my life, I learned to never trust anyone who vlaims to want to help me. No matter, if it is about mental health, medicine or something similar. Doctors never cared enough to ask the simplest of questions before they start throwing at me experimental solutions. A psychologist I went to cared more to talk about her problems then to learn mine.

So now, I trust only people who I know where exactly fo they benefit. If their payout does rely on them helping me. And the institution of marriage for instance becomes completely unacceptable for a man, who looks at it from this view. So these problems realy are everywhere nowdays.