@Richard_Nigson @LouisConde
She is in the stap 1 of problem solving:
Acknowledge that there is a problem.
But she still believes, that the problem is a judgement based on if she "deserves" commitment or not. That is the direct route to the "I want a 6 ft tall guy with 6 inches in pants who makes 6 figgures, has a 6 pack"(I forgot the 2 remaining sixes). She will become a demanding person with nothing to offer.
Still 10 steps ahead of competition though.