@realcaseyrollins
I cannot say, that I see the same value as you do, but I get it.
BTW, while working on a btchelors degree, I got completely devastated by the need to "consult" my job with the teacher. The stress of comming to him and saying:"I did this" every few weeks only to see he's not impressed was devasting, and one of 3 reasons i got completelly burned out.
I also do this when it comes to me and relationships cuz people like to talk and I don't want other people's opinions to color the general perception of other people or a potential relationships nor do I want unwelcome pressure