GIrls like her are the ones I constantly tell everyone to hunt for. There are solid wives just hiding from the world, because - let’s be honest - the ‘good’ guys have largely checked out.
Imagine you’re a normal - not insanely hot or anything, just a normal gal - going out and about. Where do you look for a man? The kind of guy you want, a man who wants to get married and settle down, isn’t hanging out in society. He’ll have brief attempts online before getting demoralized and dating a poor selection for a while, spending most of his time at work or school.
RT: https://poa.st/objects/45fdb8f7-077c-462b-99c2-37f783fa7ef8
@Sugizo Church? Sure, one of the better places, but be ready because the dudes there ARE looking to wed, and you’ll likely have a handful of suitors (the washed up freaks nobody married yet, desperate and low-quality) bugging you every week until you finally give up and stop going altogether.
“Oh well go after your interests!” they say, not realizing that those too are tapped out. Join a club? Everyone’s in a relationship, the singles weirded out by being the eternal 3rd wheel. A team? fun, except there’s only one marriagable man there and he has a ton of attention from 3 other girls all driving to the hoop, and after a month or two you find out they’ve all slept with him. Huh.
Men aren’t hunting for wives any more, it’s hard, and if we’re honest with ourselves we’re slacking off on our search after a few years of failure. (Pickiness too, but that’s a whole OTHER thing)
@WashedOutGundamPilot @Sugizo
I wish I could believe you, but it's so hard to believe after seeing the situation from my side.
Is it possible? Sure. But one would at least guess, that one of her friends could hook up a neet with a neet knowing they are good for each other.
