GIrls like her are the ones I constantly tell everyone to hunt for. There are solid wives just hiding from the world, because - let’s be honest - the ‘good’ guys have largely checked out.

Imagine you’re a normal - not insanely hot or anything, just a normal gal - going out and about. Where do you look for a man? The kind of guy you want, a man who wants to get married and settle down, isn’t hanging out in society. He’ll have brief attempts online before getting demoralized and dating a poor selection for a while, spending most of his time at work or school.

RT: https://poa.st/objects/45fdb8f7-077c-462b-99c2-37f783fa7ef8

@Sugizo Church? Sure, one of the better places, but be ready because the dudes there ARE looking to wed, and you’ll likely have a handful of suitors (the washed up freaks nobody married yet, desperate and low-quality) bugging you every week until you finally give up and stop going altogether.

“Oh well go after your interests!” they say, not realizing that those too are tapped out. Join a club? Everyone’s in a relationship, the singles weirded out by being the eternal 3rd wheel. A team? fun, except there’s only one marriagable man there and he has a ton of attention from 3 other girls all driving to the hoop, and after a month or two you find out they’ve all slept with him. Huh.

Men aren’t hunting for wives any more, it’s hard, and if we’re honest with ourselves we’re slacking off on our search after a few years of failure. (Pickiness too, but that’s a whole OTHER thing)

@WashedOutGundamPilot @Sugizo People quickly blame women for being sluts and not wife material, but those very same men are obsessed with porn and hookup culture just as much.

A whore economy doesn’t just happen, buyers need to exists, and too many men just want a pretty hole whenever they feel like it. It’s disgusting on both sides.

@Twoinchdestroya @Sugizo “I want a virgin wife!“ is hard to hear when you realize the female equivalent is “I want a man untained by 50,000 hours of pornography“

@WashedOutGundamPilot @Sugizo It’s painfully true as I am in the latter category, unfortunately.

@Twoinchdestroya @Sugizo Most of us are, in some form or another. When they try to study the effects on pre-pubescent brains, they can’t even find control groups of boys who haven’t seen porn yet.

I know guys hate to hear it, but they are in feel equivalent, in that it colors your future relationships, bonding, and expectations. Sure, morally it’s not a 1:1, but to a woman’s instincts she’ll have alarms blaring of her own just like us.

@WashedOutGundamPilot @Sugizo @Twoinchdestroya
That sounds so fucking stupid...
How low does a woman have to think of herself to think, that a quick release that is so biologically pre-programmed, it will happen without porn anyway in my sleep... Is fucking a comparable experience to a girlfriend. Or to a friend. Or to a good meal... Or to anything else of such a barely noticeable value?

Should I also be shielded from ever seeing other women hair? I don't see her wearing hijab. Yet, I "released" to women, that I saw only fully clothed.