@Bro-Drillard @LukeAlmighty That’s like the default husband flavor text as a man:
honey, you need to stop stressing out over these things
Good luck, never works. You know what my girl was stressing about the other day? Like, ruined her night stress? Her friend got her a present that was more expensive than hers and she was freaking out trying to think of how to make it up to her
@LukeAlmighty @Bro-Drillard Think about it from their POV: It’s a matter of survival for them.
For dudes, we’re wired with the comfort of a lone warrior, a creature that doesn’t necessarily need to rely on the strength of its social structure to live another day. That’s why we’re concerned with what’s right in a vacuum, no matter what people outside it believe.
Women aren’t built for combat though, their primary survival strategy is to get others to fight FOR them, and for that to happen they have to have a position of admiration, respect, and affection within the group. That’s why it tickles their brains so differently to be the center of attention, to be a popular node in the local social network. It’s a matter of survival