@teknomunk
Sorry for the late response, I missed your message in the torrent of low effort responses.

Obviously, the "I wish there was something I could do to help" is not disgusting. That is the most human thing you can feel in such a situation.

The point of my message is maybe even more connected to the line "I will pray for you", that I have been told several times directly.

If you know I don't believe in god, and I am suffering, why would you think, that telling me, that you will "think about someone (not you) helping me instead of you" will make me feel better in any way?

The problem with "thoughts and prayers" is exactly the facct, that it pushes your own christianity on the person in the exact moment, when he's the most desperate and broken.