I used to believe this STRONGLY. But recently, I had a talk with my father about my grandma.

Her best friend lives next door. Literally the one door next to her in the same house.

And... they never visit each other. That is unimaginable to me. And while it does explain, whe even the shit that scared me to death like lockdowns seem invisible to her, It also means, that building of a community will not be that easy process I immagined it to be. Because some people truly do not need it.