@Curvin @GrungeQueef @RikaDerufu
An autist here
As an autist, I have a special ability to work with abstractions on higher levels. So, let me see, if I can help you.

Official definition:
> Gender refers to the characteristics of women, men, girls and boys that are socially constructed. This includes norms, behaviours and roles associated with being a woman, man, girl or boy, as well as relationships with each other. 

So, when it comes to roles of men and women, that are socially constructed to improve relationships between each other, I can think of few examples.

Work:
Men is supposed to work 10h a day, then come home, and relax with family.
Women are supposed to take care of the low intensity needs of her husband and childern, as well as educate them until they can start taking care of themselves.

Value:
Men are valued for their hard work, ambition, and ability to protect/provide for his family.
Women are valued for their purity and ability to care and rise other people when they hit their low point.

So, we know, that literally all men(gender) will be educated for job market, get a job, and be dating freely, while all women(gender) will be raised knowing how to cook as well as care for people. And they will be warned harshly against serial dating.

Therefore, literally every person in this society is man according to the gender theory if applied correctly.