If the LGTBIQ+ community in the US wants to move to Europe, may I suggest Spain as a possible destination? I can't help you with any of that, you'd be on your own, but Spain is quite liberal, despite having too many conservative people in it. The only issue is that you might have to avoid the main cities like Madrid or Barcelona as there is a lot of people and prices here are prohibitive. You'd have to move somewhere more modest.
If you can drive and you're willing to live in a low population area, there is a lot of villages that offer very cheap housing and even jobs. Though these jobs are not tech related, of course.
I mean, it's an option...
And if you have a passport and papers in order, I don't think it's going to be hard for any of you to get in, assuming you can find proper housing and a job.