@grey
I would seriously like to find a way to talk about just how ridiculous the women's social plan is these days. The word for the concept is "gender role", but that word is a logic antimatter these days.

Anyway. The plan women are sold is: You have to study 9 + 4 + 3 + whatever years of your life, so you can be educated to work for 10 years to become a CEO...... so that you can attract a man with this (men seriously don't care, and the good ones even less, since they are not in debt) and once you attract a guy, you either give it all up (leaving you with nothing of value), or staying at job, leaving your own kids abused.

And this is something that has to be debated on the societal scale. We're so fucked, until this changes.