i am a textbook deadnamer. i didn’t realize that about myself until the past year or so. especially with nicknames... once i’ve decided what i’m calling you, i’ll probably never change it. 🤣 even if you’re trying to stay under the radar. sorry, @TheAncestor. same with my mtf ex. i will never call him by his new name. sorry.
@theblessing@TheAncestor I have a similar issue, where if for whatever reason I like your middle name more than your first name, guess what I'll insist on calling you no matter what...