Hi guys, my boyfriend has a serious monsters Inc fetish and it’s getting worse.
We have been together for about 4 years now and everything has been normal. I had no idea until one day I found Monsters Inc sex images on his phone. I confronted him about it and he basically just laughed it off, as the images were honestly ridiculous. I didn’t really care, so I just let it go. Time went on and he started wearing this Velcro Sully tail he got online around the house and starting occasionally swing around and hit my leg with it and ran away. He wears this dumb tail every day around the house and tells people he went to Monsters University and graduated a top scarer (I guess this is from the movie) He started to make weird comments such as “I wish I could touch Mike Wazowski’s green monster ass” and wanting to “suck on Mike’s monster cock” I passed this off as just immature humor, sometimes it was funny, but others it was just weird. It started to get really uncomfortable when he told me if we could try Monsters Inc role play during sex. I asked him what the hell is that even supposed to mean and he gave me all these scenarios.
It reached a breaking point one night when we were lying in bed, in the mood to have sex, when he goes “I’ll be right back.” He comes back 10 minutes later in a full sized Sully costume with the monsters inc theme playing on full blast and roars. At this point I am so uncomfortable and have no idea what to say. I just sit there speechless with this fucking Sully costume standing in front of me. I tell him no way is this happening and he gets so upset. After trying to convince me he agrees to take it off and we leave it at that. I’m not sure what to do anymore or how I can stop this? How can I confront him about this? Any advice is welcome.
TLDR: Boyfriend has a monsters inc fetish that has gotten progressively worse to the point where is impacting our love life.