@theblessing @stevejail @orekix
I've stopped trying it when I realized they're less fun/interesting then when I don't try to steer them.
What I remember working for me was when I was going to bed to concentrate on the fact that I need to pay attention to the dream and realize that I'm dreaming. It took a few tries, but eventually it worked, and I was able to lightly control the dream.
I haven't done this intentionally in forever, but from time to time I'll still figure out that I'm dreaming and I still manage to gently push the dream in certain ways. Oh, and lately I'm able to more easily come out of a nightmare. I kinda basically reject the dream and say "no, fuck this, I'm waking up".