@wowaname
If people didn't care about trans people, that wouldn't be a problem. It would mean people would leave you alone to do whatever you want with your life.

For example, I love F1 racing, but I don't care about Nascar, or Indy Car, or Touring racing. Do you see me bitching or ever mentioning those? Do you see me judging what happens in those sports? No, cause I don't care. I also don't care about Rwanda, or most African countries. And I also don't bitch about them and let them do whatever African countries do to themselves that people keep emigrating away.

People not caring about trans people is good, that's what you should want in society. You not occupying a single second in their mind is what you need so you can live a normal life.

The problem is when people DO care about you, as a human being, but they genuinely believe you are doing your life wrong. When these two things clash, THAT'S when you get people up in your business, trying to dictate how you do things.