@grey we were talking about gypsies at d&d the other day and the only girl there goes "you know that they think it's a slur, they would prefer to be called romanis" and one of the guys goes "well there aren't any of them here so it doesn't matter."
i take a look around, realize none of us are black and get a smile on my face before saying "you know that sets a dangerous precedent"
@AidanTTIerian @MK2boogaloo @grey she always brings cookies or pastries for everyone and she's the only one who can re-focus everyone when they go off on a tangent. She's got a lot of social anxiety so it's good for her to be around a group of people doing something fun.
You made a big mistake.