In fairness: I chose to start an edgy server. Many people choose to block this server because of that. That is their prerogative, I don't actually disagree with that! I can't communicate with large parts of the network because of my choice. Sometimes that is frustrating but ultimately I made the right choice for me because I needed a place where I could speak my mind without the constant worry and self-censorship which really does create stress and psychological burden for me.