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@deprecated_ii @Aether also a dumb guy, should have controlled his bitch and shut her down instead of being passive about it
@beardalaxy @deprecated_ii @Aether Not necessarily. He saw the red flag and acted accordingly. He quit his job and moved house in 3 days, without saying a word about it. That tells me he knew his only option was to leave no trace otherwise she would never let him go. He just kept his mouth shut and got the job done.
@ned @deprecated_ii @Aether all i'm saying is that if i was in a relationship for 2 years and everything was actually going really well, and i had even talked to my girl about a threesome or something like that (i wouldn't, just putting myself into the situation), i wouldn't disappear after she suggested something she thought would be kinky and i didn't want to do it. i'd say no, and ask her to respect that, and if the relationship was really good then she would. doing this is really immature, if in fact the relationship was doing fine.
the alternative is that the relationship WASN'T good and so this nigga used this as an excuse to get out instead of just talking to her like an adult should. he just ran from his problems.
@beardalaxy @deprecated_ii @Aether What do you think is the chances of a couple with a healthy sex life, where 1 party of that relationship openly advocates for an open relationship, staying monogamous for their entire life. I'd put it at <10%.
If she's friends and/or family with a bunch of local cops that can cause a lot of problems when he's out and about.
It's entirely possible she's also not mentioning prior infidelity (attempts or actual) in her post that the exBF knows about.
She's probably anti-natalist (she's a 30+ year old femredditor), and he'd like to continue his lineage.
And hell, maybe he'd already been thinking about moving. He clearly has enough foresight to have enough resources to be able to skip town in two days on very little notice. Having a better place/job on standby and the perfect opportunity to pull the trigger on that is completely plausible.
Why are you defending ''We should fuck other people."? That's basically NTR IRL.
@beardalaxy @deprecated_ii @Aether Or he could say no. She would feel trapped by his selfishness. And in 10 years, after the 2nd kid, she would have no desire for him anymore. Blame him for smothering her adventurous side. And sleep with some bro she met at the gym.