@William_The_Dragonborn @elftummy Really fucked up in the head.

I'm convinced that people with this fetish have childhood trauma.
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@Bunsen @William_The_Dragonborn @elftummy my thought has always been that men who like obese women know they have low self esteem so they can have more control over them. even if that's only subconscious. idk though i'm not a psychologist.

@beardalaxy @William_The_Dragonborn @elftummy Maybe an obese women harassed them as kids? I don't know, either.

If only we could understand and prevent this.
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It's very simple: they know it's wrong, and they enjoy seeing a woman give her life over to wrongness.
@William_The_Dragonborn Forgive that, though this thread was about me, I have not been active on this thread today -- I was busy on a hike with my gf in the mountains (pics related)

As for the psychology of loving fat bitches, it is a topic on which I've expounded upon & explained many times before, but I shall do so again because some of you appear new to the concept, my account, or both.

There are two primary reasons someone would actually prefer fat women:
1. BDSM (the reason @Hephaestic & @beardalaxy mention)
2. Food Scarcity, esp. during childhood (the reason @Bunsen & @Paultron-3030 mention, & the group of which I am a part)

It is unknown the proportion of each group, & there are often cases of overlap between the two, but based on my personal experience talking with others in my cohort, most people seem to fall into the latter category because most people my age (late 20s) grew-up during a major economic recession, and so I will explain #2 first:

2. Many scientific studies have concluded that men who prefer larger women often do so because of high stress, especially during adolescense & especially when it comes to food scarcity. For those like myself who grew up initially in the middle class, but whose family sank into poverty because of jews crashing the economy in 2007, this is especially the case.
Any man with a healthy amount of testosterone today (difficult to find because jews have poisoned the environment for so many generations) has a natural & innate approval of chubby women, because in nature & in all White societies until ~1950, a chubby woman (or even a fat one) meant health, vitality, fertility, etc -- she was "recession-proof".
When one undergoes a lot of stress, especially as a child, the areas of the brain which already have this natural preference are supercharged & many (myself included) can take this preference overboard & outside of the norm.
This isn't something one can just "turn off" even if one were to manage to claw their way out of poverty & into excess (as I have); it's like asking a footfag to cure the literal brain damage (footfaggery is caused by unnaturally crossed wires in the brain) and quit liking feet -- it just doesn't work that way.

1. You will find that many men who like fat women do so for the same reason why many men like smokers, junkies, women with tattoos, women who self-harm, etc: they get pleasure in a woman destroying herself for his pleasure. This is widely seen as a subset of the BDSM community. Men who like this are mostly interested in the power dynamics involved. I've known several men like this, and a few who fall into both categories.
@elftummy @Hephaestic @beardalaxy @Bunsen @Paultron-3030 You have my respect. I understand now. I realize you are telling the truth because I myself can self diagnose. I will meet you halfway here.
@elftummy @Hephaestic @beardalaxy @Bunsen @William_The_Dragonborn @Paultron-3030 interesting. i have never looked into it that deep but it makes total sense when you explain it like that. i had a similar experience as a kid (never really wanted for food per se but i did have a rather stressful childhood) and i never thought about why i liked big gals. i always just assumed it was something i got as part of the fetish lottery or something and there really wasn't any rhyme or reason behind it. i mean i like thin girls too (within reason), ya know?
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