@beardalaxy hey man, he's got things I don't have.

retards for the win bois
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@Tony I'm too retarded to date normal women but not retarded enough to be attracted to retarded women. Such is life.

@beardalaxy normal women aren't worth it tbh.

And like im not even coming from incel land, I've date 13 women (1-3 years), lived with three, and the rest have been 1-3 year relationships over the last 15 years.

Honeslty man, they are nice but they waste money and emotional energy.

im not even butt hurt about it, i used to want marriage and kids and all that but at this point the state simps for women so hard marrying one is taking on a shit ton of risk you can't afford.

Not to like be an incel because thats not my point, but they honestly aren't worth trusting long term.
@Tony @beardalaxy based, you are an incel. Incel is a state of mind you can be an incel and have lots of sex also
@get @beardalaxy I owned a painting business and my last GF's friends talked her into treating me like shit because I wasn't a lawyer. She literally chose her friends and "girls trips" over me.

Girls trips consisted of wearing sexy outfits and getting hit on by men in other states.

So i broke up with her when she told me her friends didn't think I was good enough?

what the actual fuck is wrong with waman lol

Also, all of her friends were 40+ with multiple divorces
@Tony @beardalaxy I was thinking about it yesterday and if I was a woman I would be pulling the same scams on men honestly. At the end of the day the person you choose to date is a stranger you aren't really emotionally attached to and the reward for fucking them over is huge. If I was a woman I would be a millionaire by now
@get @beardalaxy oh for sure.

Waman are literally predators lol. They will drain all your resources and then just bunny hop to the next simp.

You should literally never give them respect or treat them seriously because they fundementally aren't cpapable of actual loyalty
@amerika @get @beardalaxy sure. I mean im not saying dont date women. It's nice to have a soft prescenese. But realize they will fuck you over and leave as soon as things get hard.

It's not their fault they literally aren't capable of loyalty like men are.
@Tony @get @beardalaxy

Women and men are different, but no one is equal. There are good ones and some rotters, also a bunch in the middle who are just doing the best they can with what they know.

But I hope you find a nice one. The theme of the girlfriend or wife scorning the functional blue-collar job shows up a lot in those stories.
@amerika @get @beardalaxy idk im probably tilted because i live in a mostly blue state so literally all the woman around here are like "MY BODY MY CHOICE" "IMMIGRANTS MATTER MORE THAN CITIZENS" ect
@Tony @get @beardalaxy

It's hard to deal with; you have to find the pockets of sanity and meet the unpretentious ones, I suppose.
@amerika @get @beardalaxy women aroudn here treat men mostly as "i need to get married and he makes my friends happy" they don't actually like you for you, they like you for how their friends see you
@Tony @beardalaxy I don't even want to get married or have children but witnessing unconditional love between a couple of 70+ years is truly something to behold.
@subnetter @beardalaxy yah, i've seen couples like this. Usually older.

I don't think it exists in the modern world.
@Tony @beardalaxy but this bias stems from negative experiences. It doesn't sound like you truly loved any of your previous girlfriends either.

@Tony I would say I need to just find someone very similar to me but that was the last girl I went on a date with and she was like "I don't see a future with you." after ONE date that I thought went pretty well and that I traveled 2 hours each way by train for. Like, what's good enough?

Tbh, not trying to denigrate myself or anything, but realistically if I were a woman why tf would I date someone like me seriously? Can't drive, can't work a full time job. Sure I'm kinda funny and kinda smart and like partially attractive, and I try my best in everything that I can, but if I'm thinking as a woman... The dating market is completely in a woman's favor. She could probably find someone who has all those upsides and their downsides won't be as life altering as mine are.

The longest relationship I ever had was in 10th grade, for almost a year, and she told me over text she never actually really liked me that much to break it off.

Maybe it's just not in the cards for me man. Sucks to think about sometimes but you know what, that date funny enough really made me re-focus on myself. Started learning Japanese, going to the gym again, shit like that.

@Tony my family has a pretty rotten history of divorces too so I have the feeling I have some guardian angel watching over me making sure that shit doesn't happen to me too lol

@beardalaxy the one thing I want to really make clear is women don't actually date "good decisions". When i was broke AF living in my moms house i landed a girl who wanted to marry me and dated me for over a year.

You're circumstances and the whole 6 foot, six figure bs is actually garbage. Women make terrible dating decisions.

That being said, There is also a warning, women make terrible dating decisions.

Its mostly a numbers game man. The more you talk to, eventually you find one ethat likes you. It sounds shallow but thats how it is.

At least thats been my experience. It's "
over for you" i guess if you give up appraoching, but im sure if you talk to enoutgh women you'll find one who's lonely. Again its a matter of numbers.

But thats not romantic, but thats also the point. It's a numbers game. You'll likely never find one who actually supports you anyway, but you will find one who will attach to you if you look hard enough. I guess the question is, "is that good enough". Idk the answer to that. But regardless of your situation its less "women are impossible" and more just talk to more of them and be okay with some chubby girls and you'll find one. You may not be happy but welcome to dating....
@beardalaxy @Tony All women are that shallow

for a female/woman, men are
providers
resources
attention

ALL women demand the same

Over 6 foot
Over 6 inchs
Over 6 figure income
6 pack abs

Put yourself in their shoes (Something women cant do )

What do you offer

- Job
- Vechile
- Strength

Do you have a home already

Can you fight
Can you fix/repair/handyman
Can you budget

All women expect to get the top 2-5% of men
and offer NOTHING in return

Check out
MRA
MGTOW
Female Nature



Things a guy can do to improve his chances

- Lose weight
- Lose body Fat
- Get stronger

- Eat 2 meals a day or omad
- Go Ketovore or carnivore
- Go Distilled water/RO water

Learn to fight/box/mma
Walk 1.2-2.4-4km km per day
Run 100-200-400-800-1200m per day

Learn to cook
Learn spices/herbs

Get a manly job
- carp
- plumber
- concreator
- labourer
etc

Leave the desk/office


Replace artifcal materuals with natural
Replace plastic with steel/wood/concreate/clay
Buy clothes with wool/bamboo/hemp
Get plain colors , get rid of clothes with printed designs/logos

Learn to
Paint
Mow
Fix - Hammer/nails/etc

Get a ute/4wd , get rid of the hatchback/sedan

Learn to camp, fish and setup a camp fire
@charliebrownau @beardalaxy Thats just not true. Im short and literally an alcoholic who's broke. And women "love" me.

They see me as exciting "i can fix him" mind set.

That social media brain rot. Women literally make terribvle dating decisions. They'll fuck a homeless guy behind a dumpster before giving time to a nice guy. That sounds dramatic but it's factually kinda true. Those things don't actually matter bros.

But the reality is is that they probably won't actually be loyal. Most people aren't. And thats what you have to filter for.
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