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@Tony based retard
@Tony I'm too retarded to date normal women but not retarded enough to be attracted to retarded women. Such is life.
And like im not even coming from incel land, I've date 13 women (1-3 years), lived with three, and the rest have been 1-3 year relationships over the last 15 years.
Honeslty man, they are nice but they waste money and emotional energy.
im not even butt hurt about it, i used to want marriage and kids and all that but at this point the state simps for women so hard marrying one is taking on a shit ton of risk you can't afford.
Not to like be an incel because thats not my point, but they honestly aren't worth trusting long term.
@Tony I would say I need to just find someone very similar to me but that was the last girl I went on a date with and she was like "I don't see a future with you." after ONE date that I thought went pretty well and that I traveled 2 hours each way by train for. Like, what's good enough?
Tbh, not trying to denigrate myself or anything, but realistically if I were a woman why tf would I date someone like me seriously? Can't drive, can't work a full time job. Sure I'm kinda funny and kinda smart and like partially attractive, and I try my best in everything that I can, but if I'm thinking as a woman... The dating market is completely in a woman's favor. She could probably find someone who has all those upsides and their downsides won't be as life altering as mine are.
The longest relationship I ever had was in 10th grade, for almost a year, and she told me over text she never actually really liked me that much to break it off.
Maybe it's just not in the cards for me man. Sucks to think about sometimes but you know what, that date funny enough really made me re-focus on myself. Started learning Japanese, going to the gym again, shit like that.
You're circumstances and the whole 6 foot, six figure bs is actually garbage. Women make terrible dating decisions.
That being said, There is also a warning, women make terrible dating decisions.
Its mostly a numbers game man. The more you talk to, eventually you find one ethat likes you. It sounds shallow but thats how it is.
At least thats been my experience. It's "
over for you" i guess if you give up appraoching, but im sure if you talk to enoutgh women you'll find one who's lonely. Again its a matter of numbers.
But thats not romantic, but thats also the point. It's a numbers game. You'll likely never find one who actually supports you anyway, but you will find one who will attach to you if you look hard enough. I guess the question is, "is that good enough". Idk the answer to that. But regardless of your situation its less "women are impossible" and more just talk to more of them and be okay with some chubby girls and you'll find one. You may not be happy but welcome to dating....
for a female/woman, men are
providers
resources
attention
ALL women demand the same
Over 6 foot
Over 6 inchs
Over 6 figure income
6 pack abs
Put yourself in their shoes (Something women cant do )
What do you offer
- Job
- Vechile
- Strength
Do you have a home already
Can you fight
Can you fix/repair/handyman
Can you budget
All women expect to get the top 2-5% of men
and offer NOTHING in return
Check out
MRA
MGTOW
Female Nature
Things a guy can do to improve his chances
- Lose weight
- Lose body Fat
- Get stronger
- Eat 2 meals a day or omad
- Go Ketovore or carnivore
- Go Distilled water/RO water
Learn to fight/box/mma
Walk 1.2-2.4-4km km per day
Run 100-200-400-800-1200m per day
Learn to cook
Learn spices/herbs
Get a manly job
- carp
- plumber
- concreator
- labourer
etc
Leave the desk/office
Replace artifcal materuals with natural
Replace plastic with steel/wood/concreate/clay
Buy clothes with wool/bamboo/hemp
Get plain colors , get rid of clothes with printed designs/logos
Learn to
Paint
Mow
Fix - Hammer/nails/etc
Get a ute/4wd , get rid of the hatchback/sedan
Learn to camp, fish and setup a camp fire
They see me as exciting "i can fix him" mind set.
That social media brain rot. Women literally make terribvle dating decisions. They'll fuck a homeless guy behind a dumpster before giving time to a nice guy. That sounds dramatic but it's factually kinda true. Those things don't actually matter bros.
But the reality is is that they probably won't actually be loyal. Most people aren't. And thats what you have to filter for.
@Tony my family has a pretty rotten history of divorces too so I have the feeling I have some guardian angel watching over me making sure that shit doesn't happen to me too lol