btw to random onlookers, sorry for allowing personal relationship drama to leak out.
As transparently and unbiased as possible: I love Gatita, he's depressed, he's facing a lot of challenges at once from multiple angles, but also, as his (former?) lover it's been impossible for me to help him, love doesn't help, listening doesn't help, solutions don't help, money doesn't help, tough love doesn't help... and it's not just me. A lot of people close to Gatita have tried and failed to help.
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@beardalaxy it's true, he is so fucking smart, but he focuses on the wrong things...