@hitlerswaifu @matana I felt this. Only reason I'm not outright agreeing is mainly due to minority communities like mine being pretty assholish to women, but yee especially in middle class+ households, the sexism is essentially balanced out. Thats the thing, femcels are praised and protected in society while incels keep getting more and more shit on, even if they aren't neccessarily doing anything. Yet when you point out the influence femcels have over society, most people talk about the "school shootings" incels do, as if most incels want to shoot up schools in the first place. The logic is essentially the new age variant of "video game addiction causes violence and thus let us enforce our puritan culture on thee". Sexism isn't gone, we've just come full circle and done it for both sides: for men, liking anything sexually attractive or critiquing the culture of female communities makes one a mysogynist, while women are essentially given the priveleges of men without any of the responsibilities in society, and then being rewarded for it and gaslit into the idea that they go through just as many hardships as men