@orekix
I'm in favor of "I decide how much you get or you get a fucking job". My father gave my mom only as much as she needed and a little extra. Not half his salary lol
@matrix
@igeljaeger @orekix @matrix when you're only dating you shouldn't be paying them - at that point they're a sugar baby, not a partner. When you're married you're delegating relationship duties to the point that you ideally would have most of your finances shared.
@mewmew
Ok I'll stay home instead and she works then. Now pay up bitch Im doing the dishes now
@matrix @orekix
@igeljaeger @matrix @orekix If you're trying to cheat your partner out of their time and money, you're not really partners, are you?
@mewmew
Why would anybody need to cheat if we both work and do chores?
@matrix @orekix
@xj9
Without kids, there would barely be "housewive" shit to do. And even then, why can't I take care of em? I know how my mom spent her time when I grew up and it wasn't worth half of my dad's salary I tell you that. She simply didn't want to work, and was pretty clear about that
@matrix @mewmew @orekix
@igeljaeger @matrix @orekix what's your point here? I'm not arguing for only having one partner working, but that is a realistic arrangement, and in that case, you shouldn't have one partner giving the other partner money, you should have both partners sharing funds.

Usually, a case like that would have one partner raising children, with the other partner doing less of the parenting and more money making, in which case, responsibilities are divided more fairly.

@orekix @igeljaeger Being a housewife is a job, but if you can't even cook than you are just a gold digger.

@igeljaeger @matrix >her not wasting her whole salary in addition to half of yours
cheap bitch
@matrix >not having a productive gamer gf so you can check off the second row
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