What's the evolutionary advantage of women desperately needing social validation?

@matrix Its pretty much the only reason a woman would have to interact with a man in the first place. So pretty much the only reason the species exists :)

@freemo I don't mean just from men, that part makes sense. What I don't understand is that they desire validation from other women yet at the same time are competing with them for mates.

@matrix I was just being silly anyway, I didnt mean that, it just made me laugh.

But if we are being serious I find men need validation too just in very different ways.

@freemo Maybe studying a large sample of people would prove me wrong, but from my personal observations I think that men don't care that much about validation from men, but care quite a lot about validation from women while women care about validation from everyone.

@freemo @matrix "men don't care that much about validation from men"
Upvotes, likes, (e-)peen measuring contests makes me think otherwise.

@likho
But that's competition. When it comes to social media, it's women, especially teen girls who are most negatively affected by social media.
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@likho @freemo @matrix I'm not surprised that they're generally the minority on social media then.
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Teens or women?
Instagram is majority female. Facebook is about equal. Twitter is majority male.
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Well onlyfans is basically just pornhub except that you have to pay for it and only get softcore... so I'd expect most of the accoutns are women and most of the clients are men.

@matrix @likho

@likho @freemo @matrix I assumed teen girls. I know Reddit is mostly men. Twitter and Facebook are mostly older.

@likho @freemo And before TikTok came along the hip social media among teens was Instagram

@matrix @likho @freemo Couple years ago, a coworker told me she overheard kids in the grocery store saying "only boomers use facebook; everyone cool uses instagram!".

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In europe, or at least in the netherlands, it was snapchat.. no idea what it is right now.

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