I've never had fun having sex
I've never been in a real relationship
I don't seek out relationships
I don't go out of my way to have sex

W-what's this say about me?
@SpudsRudeEye maybe you just dont want a relationship rn? And dont really care about sex?
@ItsJustSky No, it's like-- I want these things to matter to me but their ultimate importance in my life is so infinitesimal that I just don't want to set aside time for them, which is ODD because all I have is time to put into stuff like this. There's a girl at the pharmacy who looks at me with googly eyes and I know she wants me to ask her out but I'm just not... like, I just don't care if I die alone.
@SpudsRudeEye not sure. People make up all these terms like asexual or whatever but at the end of the day some people are just like that.

@ItsJustSky @SpudsRudeEye It is a real thing. I'm the same way, but I'm not an attention whore about it.

@xianc78 @ItsJustSky I'm not trying to be an attention whore, I'm trying to understand myself a little better and it's so rare to meet people who feel the same way I do about... any number of things. When I do, it's great, but they more than often vanish from my life as quickly as they entered it.
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@SpudsRudeEye @ItsJustSky Not saying you were. It's perfectly okay not to be interested in sex or romance. There's a lot more to life than those things. As long as you have a healthy social life and are happy that's all what matters in the end.

Just ignore all the SJWs who make a big deal about it. It's them that make being asexual look bad.

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@xianc78 @ItsJustSky I was not aware social justice warriors had commandeered asexuality. I didn't even know it was that well-known of a phenomenon. How do social justice warriors even do anything with it? They're such sex-positive people who I just assumed are always horny. I'm not being facetious, I genuinely can't wrap my head around it.

@SpudsRudeEye @ItsJustSky They claim that asexuals are more oppressed than lesbians, gays, and bisexuals only because they are usually not included in LGBT+ circles. I honestly don't like the LGBT label because there never was a civil rights struggle for asexuals. There was never anything stopping asexuals from not having sex.

@xianc78 @ItsJustSky They're not part of the LGBT circles because asexuals are not IN the LGBT circles. It's not technically a sexuality, it's the lack of sexuality.

Atheists deal with this all the time, saying that "atheism" in the truest sense of the word pontificates the ABSENCE of a god. It comes from some ancient Greek or Latin "A" (without) "Theist" (God) just like asexuality in the clinical sense of the word would follow to mean "without sexuality"

This isn't rocket science

@SpudsRudeEye @ItsJustSky Well some people lump them into the LGBT acronym. While I do like LGBT people, I don't consider myself part of it for reasons you just mentioned.

@xianc78 @ItsJustSky Hey, I like LGBT people too

I've done stuff I'm not proud of with a few of them while I was trying to figure myself out but that's besides the point, some of my friends just like to get freaky
@SpudsRudeEye @xianc78 @ItsJustSky this doesn't work because sexuality terms are so malleable that you can be a horny, sexually-active asexual.
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