When I say it's not a Mr. Girl situation I mean I wouldn't tell her to shut up or gaslight her super hard or anything like that. I would just use the power imbalance to not have to go out of my way for her as far as she has to go out of hers for me. I make her lunch, she makes me dinner. I get her a car, she gets me a boat. I give her a back rub, she gives me a full body massage with a happy ending.