My ex used to play victim about being poly all the time, "I'm oppressed" like no you're fucking not. Nobody cares if you have multiple partners, you just want attention. I thought this was just a him thing, but a person on a channel I watch came out as poly and they did the same thing, just bitching about being oppressed. In what world are poly people fucking opressed?
I don't care if you're poly, just don't try and claim perpetual victim status because a select few people said mean things to you.