Hate is a destructive emotion that can have negative effects on both the person feeling it and the target of the hate. It can damage relationships, create conflict, and contribute to a negative and unhealthy environment. People who spread hate often do so out of anger, fear, or a desire to harm others.. It is important for individuals to recognize and address their own feelings of hate and to strive to cultivate kindness, understanding, and respect for others.
love is selfish. it isn't supposed to be all giving. compassion and empathy are, unfortunately, a crippling factor when society and the economy and everything are designed to favor callousness, selfishness, and taking advantage of others.
so when you grow up and learn how to be a "good person" you buy into this scam that effectively makes you a tool for everybody else... and the only "win" you get is feeling that you're a decent person and maybe connecting with someone who appreciates that without taking advantage of it too much.