@Jazzy_Butts This is a false dichotomy. Your second option is simply the perverted common state of today. Sex is inherently good, and in its native state, an act that follows love, producing another fruit of love.
What is normal? What is restored? What is good? What is right and true? Without divine revelation men will not only make false assumptions, confusing the perverted for the norm, but actively undermine and distort all creation.