It's so hard to "do the right thing" and NOT attack entire groups linguistically, maybe even impossible. If 9 out of 10 Christians abuse you, it's really hard to not say FUCK CHRISTIANS. Same with blacks, atheists, gays, you can even BE A PART of the groups you HATE because you've been MISTREATED by members of that group. I HATED gays for a couple years after being mistreated by my same sex ex. I hated Christians, then stopped hating them because I had not been exposed to one for a LONG time......then I met ONE shitty Christian, and I went back to fucking hating them...the me who's accepting would not be cool with the me that is bigoted, idk what to do.