I'm going to say something AS AN ALIEN OUTSIDER, BASED ON OBSERVATIONS I HAVE MADE, I think the situation IS BAD and OUGHT BE CHANGED
Women are property, they are token objects used by men, their consent is pretended to be cared about but it is not a factor ultimately. The majority of sex is rape, and the majority of those raped stay quiet about it.
Raped or unraped, don't be awful to people