@bitterblossom I'm scared I went to clubs before and I lived in those bitches I helped run some shows but I feel anxious going in as a civilian just a partygoer I worry I'll get picked on, I've had guys get grabby with me before and it makes me mad

@Jazzy_Butts well you can tone down the sluttiness level to ward off some of the grabby

going as civvie is easier though, you just buy a drink, chill, dance.... try not to think about stuff too much, dont let nervousness rule you, and be aware of the people around you. there'll pretty much always be scumbags, but you can avoid them and make it clear you want nothing to do with them... and if they get too pushy, you can speak to security/bartender, or leave entirely.

i posted mostly as a joke but going to the club is to enjoy yourself and vibe, and maybe get friendly with some strangers in passing.... and maybe, possibly, actually hook up with someone. i've had great nights where i didnt even get drunk, just had a beer and a water, leaned against the wall listening to the music, and went home. just being there and enjoying the ambience does wonders for stress relief

@bitterblossom I might find one nearby that fits my vibe, thanks for the tips :3

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