@papergal I don't hate prostitutes, I just find that prostitution lends itself to...ummm....what's it called...fuck, it lends itself to like, treating yourself like shit, and compromising your beliefs and values. All jobs do this, which is why I don't like that everyone is working any jobs really, I want them all to strike until shit gets fair and respectful of human dignity, I have plenty of garden veggies and a stream to drink from, I couldn't care less if society collapsed, I want it to. I don't shame people for making money in ways they want to, ways that make them respect themselves, if you want to hook just have sex with guys you want to anyway for free, but make them pay. Easy as. If you're a boxer don't take matches you don't want to take just because you need cash, don't do that to yourself, it's shameful, it means you lack self respect and dignity. I'm not anti whore, I'm anti self abuse, I'm anti compromise. If the bossman won't treat you fair, then make the bossman hurt, and if the bossman tries to break up the strike line, break him the fuck up. I don't respect slaves who aren't ashamed of being slaves, I don't respect slaves who are comfortable with their slavery. Again, prostitution is not slavery, paving a road is not slavery, but it becomes slavery when it's all you can do to be fed, and it's not something you're happy doing, or at least not in the way you're made to do it. And that is my problem with "whores". My problem with polyamory or my partner having had more partners than I have is a completely separate issue and is pathological, it's how I am, I don't pretend to be god, the decider of what's good or bad, I can just share my opinion about what fucking disgusts me. When I jack off to beautiful whores, I am disgusted by them, and I know this is a contradiction, and I'm fine with it, I jack off and fantasize sometimes about marrying the whore, and then in the very next moment while still hard and pumping, I can't help but have my mind drift into the possible scenarios, including violent ones, I also fantasize about raping the men in their assholes, and killing everyone in the scene. I know there's something "wrong" with me but I'm comfortable with it, it's my own thing, I know it's not laudable, it's creepy and it would probably bother a lot of people, but it's who I am. Sorry if this is really long but I like your posts so I hope this helps you understand.