@Kiri so virginity is just an identity? a vibe? but it's also a criteria required to date him?
it's always one last dodge. blow the place up with a blatantly awful take, then move the goalposts until everyone taking issue is made to look foolish retroactively. it's *like* debating a nazi...
@Jazzy_Butts@ViciouslyKind I mean if you're a volcel [someone who is choosing to not do sexual activities if I understand correctly] then why someone choosing to do sexual stuff in the past is a bad thing? I mean if you were dating you wouldn't do any sexual stuff since you're celibate by choice lol
@Jazzy_Butts@ViciouslyKind then just say you don't want to date dumb people, putting so much energy into someones virginity is weird, especially when it's something you would never know unless they tell you [and they can also lie so you would never know]