My mom is a food abuser. She complains when I don't eat, but then she complains that I'm too fat. And when I was a child she made up stuff about me being allergic to things and a ton of other stuff that basically ruined my life. Can you guys give me some validation she gaslights me all the time and looks away and starts reading stuff while I'm talking to her and when I was little she would walk away from me all the time in grocery stores and at the mall she'd leave stores without me if I didn't follow her and keep up. And she'd say if someone did take me (I'd warn her someone could do that I was like 7) they'd take me back because they wouldn't want me.